01 / PERSONAL
One-on-one coaching
A private, judgment-free space to talk things through, sort through the overwhelm and start making a plan. Available virtually; ask about local options in the Okanagan.
Ask about a session →Coaching • Community • Starting over
Life fell apart.
Now what?
Divorce. Separation. Single parenting. Starting over when you didn't exactly sign up for a fresh start. You don't need another inspirational quote. You need a real conversation, practical resources and somewhere to begin.
You don't have to have it all figured out to take the next step.
A different kind of support
Real life. Real talk.
No toxic positivity.
So THAT Happened, Now What? is a coaching and community platform founded by Tiffany Lane for people navigating divorce, separation and major life changes. We make room for the messy middle — and help you find practical next steps, one at a time.
Ways to connect
Support that meets you
where you are.
02 / TOGETHER
Groups & community
Connect with people who get it. Discover supportive conversations, shared experiences and community groups, including local Okanagan connections.
Find us on Instagram →03 / AT YOUR PACE
Guides & resources
Practical starting-over tools, including a free getting-started guide and a Canadian divorce survival resource guide. Explore the latest offerings through our social channels.
Explore resources →Who we're here for
For the chapter you never saw coming.
Whether you're figuring out co-parenting, finances, a new home, or just how to get through Tuesday, you deserve information and support without judgment.
- People navigating divorce and separation
- Single moms, single dads and co-parents
- Anyone rebuilding after a major life change
- People seeking practical resources and connection
“Not here to tell you to just move on. Here to help you figure out what comes next.”
Resources
Start somewhere.
Free resource
Getting Divorced, Now What?
An approachable starting point when your brain is overloaded and you need to break the big things into smaller steps.
Find the guide through our Instagram →Canadian resource
Canadian Divorce Survival Guide
Practical guidance, planning prompts and resources for navigating separation and starting over in Canada.
Explore the guide →Partnerships & sponsorships
Let's make starting over a little less overwhelming.
We're building connections between people navigating major life changes and professionals who can help. We're interested in collaborating with trusted businesses, resource providers and community partners.
Potential partners include family-law professionals, financial advisors, mortgage brokers, real estate professionals, insurance providers, wellness businesses and local service organizations.
Useful resources. Genuine connections. A community that needs both.
Interested in speaking opportunities, sponsorships, resource collaborations or future community events? We'd love to hear from you.
Let's connect
You don't have to do
this alone.
Interested in coaching, community support, or partnering with So THAT Happened, Now What? Email us directly for coaching inquiries, community information, sponsorships and partnership opportunities.
thestartovercollective@gmail.com
Coaching and peer support are not a substitute for legal, financial, medical or licensed mental health advice.